29 and so fine
It was my 29th birthday yesterday. It was great. Most of my friends remembered and called, and all of my family called. My ex even sent me a very nice email. Not bad. A perfect day really. Went to second series in the morning, had breaka, went and got coffee with the man, and then ate at Piatti's in La Jolla. He opened a bottle of Pinot Noir, a '99 Chehalem. One word, yummy.
So my brother is getting a divorce. It is really sad. The whole situation is so wacked. How can two people who were so in love a few years ago now be communicating in one liner emails. I know that B and I have some issues, but I can't imagine having it end so dryly. I hope the best for both of them, I hope they can find someone to better suit each of them.
One the marriage front, I wonder if B will ever propose. Not likely, I think he had well enough of marriage (11 years married, ending 3.5 years ago) and I think I will have to basically threaten him with leaving, and probably do it for a while. That is great, I will have to strong arm him into marrying me, not the best way eh? But, he's great! And I love him. Why doesn't he want to marry me? It'll be two years soon, what else does he need to know to know that I am the one for him? I wonder. I'm getting old man. Arggggg, did anyone else go through this?
So my brother is getting a divorce. It is really sad. The whole situation is so wacked. How can two people who were so in love a few years ago now be communicating in one liner emails. I know that B and I have some issues, but I can't imagine having it end so dryly. I hope the best for both of them, I hope they can find someone to better suit each of them.
One the marriage front, I wonder if B will ever propose. Not likely, I think he had well enough of marriage (11 years married, ending 3.5 years ago) and I think I will have to basically threaten him with leaving, and probably do it for a while. That is great, I will have to strong arm him into marrying me, not the best way eh? But, he's great! And I love him. Why doesn't he want to marry me? It'll be two years soon, what else does he need to know to know that I am the one for him? I wonder. I'm getting old man. Arggggg, did anyone else go through this?
posted by liz at
5:37 PM
13 Comments:
We should talk in person about this sometime... I have had that happen to me (though not with my husband)... more details than I'm willing to share publically though.. let's go out for drinks one night (with Tiff :>)... lord knows the only exercise I can do is hand to mouth right now :)
Haha Julie has the right idea.
Happy Birthday baby! We need to get together soon.
I can't blame you for getting a little weary about the whole thing with B. You've been living together for a while...and yes, sometimes a ring and a proposal do matter.
xo
Happy birthday. I was once in La Jolle and we had a great time there, too.
In America is a very high divorce rate (I think 50 %) and everybody wants to marry as soon as possible. I cannot understand this. Take your time. There is no cause to hurry.
Thought and intention creates action. If your intention is to be married, you will be. As a yogini you should speak honestly and plainly to him about your intention.
Ask him what his intention is? Ask him if he wants to get married, and if he wants kids?
As the satguru says, avoidance is not the answer. You need to have "the conversation" with him. It is a good thing. If he is your man, he will step up to the plate. If he is not, then better to find out now.
Belated birthday wishes Ms. Liz. Now I know why you had that aura in Jimbos yesterday. Smiles to you.
Namaste and Shanti.
Thanks everyone! Food for thought...Hey Julie and Tiff, are you busy this weekend?
I'm actually leaving Sunday for a trip to Florida...
I could do an evening this week though (don't have to worry about practice in the morning :>). We could go to Tiffs (like how I invite myself?)
I will start dropping huge whopping hints to your man for you if you will do the same for me:) Do men think about these things too??????? Probably not. Mine probably has no idea that I am practically foaming at the mouth waiting to be asked!!!!! There has to be a way to make them notice. We need to brainstorm. Two heads are better than one....
Totally! I have already talked to him about it, and he doesn't see the rush. Well, I freaking do... I just think Jason needs to talk to Casey about impending wedded bliss???
liz! you guys have only been living together for like 6 months! james ans i are pushing 3 years, and although a ring sounds nice, i have divorced parents.. and well over half of the us is divorced.. dont rush or pressure him, its only going to freak him out and make himthink otherwise..plus, what does it matter? once your married, then thats it.. i dont know.. id rather just be mellow and let it happen...
but happy b day!!!!
ya... i know I know, but I feel so freaking old now, and like I better get going on this
but I'm not going to push anything from now on. We've talked about it enough, I am going to let it lie... just chill
ya, but who cares.. yer 29! why do u have to be married to justify who u r?
you are so right. I have decided to not worry anymore, starting... now
ps-Mike was here tonight, playing tunes, cool to catch up
yay, i mis mikey.. hes coming with me to see willie on the 8th.. james has work..:(
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